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You can not succeed on a large, important goal
without sustained action. You can not achieve success without
commitment and focus. If you are not “driven,” can you accomplish
your larger goals? Can learned attitudes or beliefs sabotage your
success?
Part II: Most people do not do the “work.”
The work is goal setting, planning, gathering the necessary
resources, and the focused follow through for their success. People
want the benefits of financial success without committing to the
real required work. Sometimes the required work includes the “work”
on oneself to understand and then overcome ones own resistance to
financial success. It is hard to attract money and financial success
if you actually fear or loath wealth. Many people stand in their own
way to achieving success. These people say that they want to succeed
but do not believe that they will succeed. Many people who have not
done the “work” will reach financial goals and then sabotage their
long-term objectives because they are not really ready for success.
A necessary secret to success: If you are
serious about achieving your financial goals, you must get serious
about dealing with your deep resistance to success.
You may require support and coaching. In some
cases you may have to go further and get good therapy to get to the
source of your negative attitudes or beliefs. If you have not
reached your highest levels of productivity and success, then you
may have to get “outside” perspective to overcome your barriers. If
you think that you do not require extra support or coaching, and you
want to make the same mistakes over and over, then do not make any
changes. It will be more comfortable to do it the “old” way, but do
not expect better results. If you really want to gain the success
that you desire then it is time to “knuckle-down” and get to work.
Be excited about the possibilities and as open as you can be to the
new insights that will help to drive your success.
One resource for you to create some awareness
about your possible sources of resistance and some new behaviors
that you can adopt that will lead to financial success can be found
in a book titled “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, Mastering the
Inner Game of Wealth” by T. Harv Eker. I learned a lot by reading
this book. Eker claims that there are 17 behaviors that are common
for financially successful people that can be missing in less
successful people and by modeling these behaviors you can move more
easily toward your financial goals. You may want to take action and
review this type of information.
Along the way, remember to make time to take good
care of yourself. Financial success means nothing if you have
compromised your physical, emotional, and spiritual health.
L. John Mason, Ph.D. is the author of the best
selling "Guide to Stress Reduction." Since 1977, he has offered
Executive Coaching and Training.
Please visit the Stress Education Center's
website at
http://www.dstress.com
for articles, free ezine signup, and learn about the new
telecourses that are available. If you would like information or a
targeted proposal for training or coaching, please contact us at
(707) 795-2228.
If you are looking to promote your training or
coaching career, please investigate the Professional Stress
Management Training and Certification Program for a secondary source
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